When God says NO

This is the book, I was blessed to co author, that I mentioned in my previous post. Sometimes when we ask for healing, God says ” No.” He doesn’t say No, to make us suffer…he says “No” to make us stronger or to teach us something.

That’s because, He has a purpose for whatever we are going through. Our lives are to be used to plant seeds in others lives and bring Glory and Honor to God.

God is waiting for us…

I often hear people say ” I have been waiting for God to heal me or deliver me from (whatever) for 5, 15, 30 years.

I cringe inside, because while everything does happen in God’s perfect timing. I myself don’t believe God would have his children suffering for 5, 15, or 30 years. I believe He answers His children rapidly. We need to pursue that answer. And we need to ASK HIM ” Lord, what do you need from me? What should I be DOING?”

We also need to LISTEN, if that answer is “No, or I am doing it this way.” I believe alot ( not all) but alot of people who are *waiting* on God for something, are using that as an excuse to DO NOTHING. While it is important to wait on God for an answer, I don’t believe MY HEAVENLY FATHER would have me sit and wait on something He had different plans for. He would have me USE whatever I was going through to help others.

I was Blessed this past year to have co authored a book where I share my personal story around my mom’s untimely death. The book is called ” When God says No.” God didnt exactly say “No,” when we asked Him to heal my mom. He did indeed heal her. He took her home to Heaven, where she is completely healed.

God often is waiting on us to BE ready or GET ready. He also needs us to ACTIVELY LISTEN to what we need to be doing while we wait. I know far too many suffering Christians who are sitting at home alone, wallowing in their * waiting* instead of listening, learning or growing to BE READY for what God is WAITING to do in their life.


We can’t just Go to church and think that’s enough.

We must be His church, His body and take His message to the streets, the schools, the workplace, everywhere we go, we are called to bring God to the world we live in.

Be prepared to talk about who Jesus is and what He has done for you.

#godsgrace #godsmercy #godspower

Forgiveness is like Fresh Snow.

New snowfalls cover EVERYTHING white, clean, fresh and beautiful.

Just like FORGIVENESS covers us white, clean, fresh and beautiful.

We are NEW creatures in Him. We are Cleansed, we are fresh and beautiful in God’s eyes.

When we accept Jesus Christ’s forgiveness, we then must forgive others. We are CALLED to walk in forgiveness.

Forgiving is a CHOICE and an ACTION.

When we choose to forgive those who have hurt and wronged us, or our family, we are cleansing ourselves to be PURE as the fresh fallen snow.

Forgiving brings the one doing the forgiving, Peace, Joy, Health, Happiness and Blessings.

Walking in forgiveness is FREEDOM.

God can work in our lives quickly and smoothly when we are walking the path of Forgiveness.




Love must start in our home

Those who know me, would rightly agree ” I love my family.”

But what maybe they don’t know, is I am not very good at showing my love to them.

Sure, I hug them and tell them ” I love you.” I do things for them, I buy them things.

But what I don’t do much of, or very well, is listen to them. Ask if they are “ok”? Or how they are doing or feeling.

It’s not that I don’t care. I just have always been more focused on what I should be doing for the world, for God. Which really has been ” how many books can I get published.” ” How much success can I grow in this business or that.”

Friends think I am “successful” because of what I have accomplished in my life. But, I woke up today asking myself “how successful am I at loving my family the way God loves them?”

The answer was; not as well as I need to. If I can’t or don’t show my family the same love God has for me, for the world and for them, how did I ever think I could help win them to Christ?

I lack patience, compassion and forgiveness towards my family. When my oldest son was a teenager and he would take the Lord’s name in vain…I would slap him across the face.

The Lord spoke to my heart and showed me, He doesn’t need me to fight for Him. He can handle that. I am ONLY called to love my family, even when they swear. My slapping my son’s face, didn’t stop him from taking the Lord’s name in vain.

I woke up from a dream that I shared with one of my prayer partners this morning. She gave me a Spiritual interpretation and from there, the Lord was able to open my eyes to how I have been showing His love and forgiveness to everyone except my family.

This hurt, it was tough to hear, but very true. I mentor women who have unforgiveness, so this was something I have needed to realize and change.

My Hope in sharing this, is to help anyone who like myself, hasn’t been loving their family the way God wants them to.

I am a work in progress and this is going to be my focus for 2020…show my family God’s love.

#peace #forgive #godsgrace #loveyourfamilyfirst

We are Enough!

God says we are the clay and He is the potter. Wouldn’t that suffice to say, we are enough, just the way we are right now, in this very moment?

We don’t have to become something, in order for God to use us. We are enough, right now.

We all have our ” issues” that make us believe we have to change in order to be the person God wants us to be. God knows all our problems, faults, lack…and yet, He still can use us, exactly as we are.

God has been molding us, since birth. He has watched us go through life’s ups and downs and painful times, knowing it is part of the molding process. God has been working in our lives, guiding and redirecting our path as needed.

To be used by God, all we have to do, is SURRENDER. Surrender our hearts to Him, and He will make us ready, right now, as we are.

Stop trying and focus on Him. He has everything we will ever need to walk out our Life Purpose.


What if Jesus walked around calling things as he saw them? “You blind men there, you stumble around and fall because you can’t see.”
“You fools, will never gain wisdom, you harlots have no hope, you little children will grow up to be just like your parents and never amount to anything.”

Thank God, the Lord teaches us in his word to SPEAK LIFE.
That the words we speak DO HOLD REAL, LIFE CHANGING POWER!


BIG FAITH = no fear

The more faith you have, the less fear you will believe. Faith and fear cannot co exist. However, you can have faith about something, but fear something else. The key in living a fearless life, is to increase your faith in God’s word.

Where there is faith, fear dissipates. But where we allow fear to plant its seed, take root and grow ; faith dies.

None of us want kill our faith, yet we do it daily, when we listen to anything that contradicts the word of God, the promises He gives us.

It’s so easy to slip into old habits of fear and doubt, when we look with our human eyes, instead of our spiritual ones.

I did this just yesterday, when I asked a friend to pray for a continued situation that God already has been moving in. She asked me why I was doubting that God had the situation still? (gulp)

YES, when we keep praying for the same thing, as if the bad that happened before will happen again if we don’t keep after God, it shows our fear and lack of faith in Him! What a put down to our ALL POWERFUL FATHER!

Instead, we need to Praise Him and Thank Him for what He is doing! When God answers our prayers, He isn’t doing it to PLEASE US, He is doing it, because we finally got on board with HIM!

So, no matter what the situation looks like, God Always Finishes what He starts! He doesnt need us to keep praying for what He is doing… He asks us to PRAISE HIM FOR WHAT HE IS DOING!

Give us what YOU want for us LORD!

How often when we pray, do we ask God “Give me what YOU WANT ME TO HAVE,” “Give me what you KNOW I NEED.”
I was laying in bed this morning praying and I started out asking like this… “Lord, I need______” “Please give me_______. “Help me with ______.”

The Lord showed me a better way to pray “Lord give me what you KNOW I NEED, what YOU have and want for me. “THANK YOU FOR MEETING ALL MY NEEDS AND CHANGING ALL OF MY WANTS TO WHAT YOU WANT FOR ME.” Thank you for making me the wife you want me to be for my husband, the mother you want me to be for my children, the nana you want me to be for my grandchildren, the friend you want me to be, the neighbor you want me to be….

Then THANK HIM for just being HIM!
How often do we forget what a LOVING GOD WE HAVE? A Heavenly Father that is 1,000 more than the very best earthly father. Our personal best friend, we can share our darkest moments with and He still LOVES us and FORGIVES us!

Today my prayer is for everyone in this group and their families to get to KNOW GOD deeper. Get to KNOW Him in your every day life. Talk to HIm throughout your day, even if it’s just to say “Lord show me you are REAL, show yourself to me, show me you are ALWAYS RIGHT THERE BESIDE ME.”

Birthday Wishes…

Today I am fifty four years old.

WOW…just writing it looks crazy! I could mope and complain about gray hairs, memory loss, aches and pains….or I could celebrate still being ALIVE!

Three times in my life that I KNOW of, I came close to death.

Almost drowned at age eight, car accident at age eighteen and after giving birth to my first born son at age twenty four.

I choose to focus on LIFE, and celebrate my fifty four years. I have gained wisdom, faith, peace, patience and a big part of God’s purpose for my life.

I starting REALLY LIVING at age fifty! I appreciate the little things and get excited about the big things.

I embrace the learning process of going through crap and have been blessed from it.

I have learned one of life’s most valuable gifts…FORGIVENESS.